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By Rick Navarrete
Attorney

Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects countless individuals and families.  If you or someone you care about is facing this situation, creating a safety plan is essential. Here, we offer practical strategies to help you identify warning signs, assess risk levels, and implement effective safety measures. Whether you are currently experiencing domestic violence or supporting someone who is, these steps can help ensure safety in challenging situations.

Identifying Warning Signs of Domestic Violence

Recognizing the warning signs of domestic violence is the first step toward protecting yourself and your loved ones. Abuse can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, and financial. Common signs include controlling behavior, such as isolating you from friends and family, monitoring your movements, and restricting access to money. Emotional abuse often involves constant criticism, humiliation, and threats. Physical abuse can range from minor bruises to serious injuries. Sexual abuse includes any unwanted sexual activity. Trust your instincts—if you feel scared or threatened, it’s crucial to acknowledge these feelings. Understanding these signs can empower you to take action and seek help before the situation escalates.

Assessing Your Risk Level

Assessing your risk level is essential in determining the immediate steps you need to take for your safety. Start by asking yourself questions about the frequency and severity of the abuse. Has it escalated recently? Are there weapons in the home? Does your partner have a history of violence or substance abuse? Consider if there are patterns of behavior that indicate increasing danger, such as threats to your life or increased isolation tactics. If you feel in immediate danger, contact local authorities or a trusted support network right away. 

Creating an Emergency Escape Plan

Creating an emergency escape plan is vital for ensuring your safety during a dangerous situation. Here’s how you can develop an effective plan:

  • Identify Safe Areas: Determine the safest rooms in your home where you can retreat during a violent incident. Ideally, these should have a lock and an exit.
  • Pack an Emergency Bag: Prepare a bag with essential items like identification, money, keys, medications, and important documents. Store it in a safe, accessible place.
  • Establish a Code Word: Create a code word with trusted friends or family members that signals you need help without alerting your abuser.
  • Plan Your Exit Routes: Know multiple ways to exit your home quickly. Practice these routes regularly to ensure you can leave swiftly in an emergency.
  • Choose a Safe Destination: Identify a safe place you can go, such as a friend’s house, a family member’s home, or a domestic violence shelter.
  • Keep Important Contacts Handy: Memorize or keep a list of important phone numbers, such as local shelters, hotlines, and trusted friends or relatives.

Accessing Community Resources

Accessing community resources can provide crucial support when dealing with domestic violence. Start by reaching out to local and national hotlines, such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE), for immediate assistance and advice. Local shelters offer a safe haven and essential services, including counseling and legal assistance. Support groups can connect you with others who understand your situation and provide emotional support. Many communities have advocacy organizations that can help with safety planning, obtaining protection orders, and accessing financial aid. Don’t hesitate to utilize these resources—they are there to help you find safety and support during this challenging time.

Understanding Legal Options

Understanding your legal options is important to protecting yourself from domestic violence. Various protection orders, such as restraining orders and emergency protection orders, can provide legal barriers against your abuser. To obtain a protection order, you typically need to file a petition with the court detailing the abuse and any immediate threats to your safety. It’s helpful to gather evidence, such as photos, messages, or witness statements, to support your case. These legal measures are designed to help you stay safe and should be pursued if you feel threatened or in danger.

Contact Our Experienced Texas Domestic Violence Attorneys

At Navarrete & Schwartz, P.C., we are dedicated to helping you stay safe and secure. Our experienced team provides compassionate legal support and can assist with obtaining protection orders and other safety measures. If you or a loved one is facing domestic violence, contact us today to discuss your options and start protecting yourself.

About the Author
Rick Navarrete, a graduate of Angelo State University and Texas Tech University School of Law, has been serving the Permian Basin for over 24 years, with his practice extending across Texas. Specializing in criminal defense and family law, Rick has tried hundreds of cases before juries and judges, including high-profile matters. His extensive experience has honed a deep understanding of the law, enabling him to effectively prosecute, defend, and protect his clients’ interests. Rick has built a firm culture that prioritizes exceptional client service and personalized attention. Known for his zealous courtroom advocacy, he is equally dedicated to educating his clients throughout the litigation process. This commitment has earned him a reputation as one of the area’s most sought-after trial attorneys. Rick is an active member of the Texas Criminal Defense Lawyers Association, the Texas Family Law Section, and the Administration of Rules of Evidence Committee for the State Bar of Texas. He has also served as President of the Midland County Young Lawyers Association and on the Bar Leadership Committee of the State Bar of Texas. Among his many accolades, Rick has been recognized as a Texas Super Lawyer and included in the Best Lawyers in America.